Cartas de madres subrogadas a los futuros padres

Hi, I wanted to take a moment to personally write to you about myself and my family. Most of the information you will probably be able to find in my profile answers, however, I feel this is a more personal approach, and since what you are going through is very personal, I feel this was more appropriate.

My name is Danielle. I have been married to my husband for 8 1/2 years. He is very supportive of my decision and knows how much I enjoy helping others. I am currently the mother of 2, and 18 month old and 4 year old. They are very sweet and loving little children an I enjoy my time with them. I primarily stay home with them while my husband works as a Police officer. However, I am currently working towards starting my own business and marketing my recent cookbook.

I would like to take a moment to briefly describe some of my attributes that you might find important to this process. I am open and honest, loving, giving, enthusiastic, motivated, patient, hard working, and reliable. I find great joy in helping people, and I am especially excited to be able to help bring the miracle of life into a family. I have personally experienced heartache in my life with the loss of a child due to an ectopic pregnancy. It was devastating to me and though it was years ago it remains one of the most painful experiences of my life. At that time I also lost one of my fallopian tubes, and didn't know if I would be able to conceive after that. Thankfully my body adjusted to that change and I was able to go on to have two beautiful children wich I am extremely grateful for. I have also had to watch countless friends suffer with infertility issues as well as other health issues and felt helpless intheir pain. I feel that this is a wonderful opportunity to act upon those feelings and do something to help.

I have made it a point in my life to take great care of my body which is healthy and strong, and because of that I feel I would be a great candidate for surrogacy. I have never used drugs, smoked, and only in my adolescense did I taste alcohol a couple times. I educate myself often in health and fitness and recently published my first cookbook which is specifically designed for healthier living. It is very important to me that this is an amazing experience for the family that I help. I would love for you to be a part of every step along the way if that is your desire. I would love to become great friends and build a close and lasting bond with you through this experience.

This is a choice I wanted to do for years, not something spur of the moment. I have had time to think, evaluate, and prepare myself for such an experience and am deciated to helping make ot happen. My body is a very suitable home for a growing baby as previosusly experienced with both my children. It is very nurturing and accepting and is amazing at that job.

In fact to most women's standars a little too nurturing. I carried to over 40 weeks with both my babies, and am happy to do so, because though it may be uncomfortable towards the end, I know that the longer they are in there the more they will be nourished and provided with the streght and growth necessary to help their bodies cope wit the changes outside of the womb. And that is the most important thing.

I can only imagine what you have gone through, and know that this must be a difficult decision  in your lives. I want to reassure you that I will do everything I can do be a great streght to you through this process, I want it to be special for you and for you to know that this is your baby, and I am just helping it along its journey into your loving arms and family. That is my ultimate goal. I look forward to the opportumity to serve you and get to know you and your family.

It is my great honor to be here through this journey.


Hello, my name is Colleen,

I am 33 years old and have two beautiful children ages 12 and 3yrs old.

I own and operate a large family childcare out of my home, for the last 8 years, and have been lucky to stay home with my children and watch them grow and learn over the years. I enjoy what I do even though at times it is challenging, it is worth it. I have had many children over the 8 year period and have had to say good bye to many children close to my heart. I feel that I share something special with every child I have been able to help raise and feel very appreciative to the parents who have given me this opportunity.

I feel that I am a great candidate to be your surrogate. I believe that my profession has groomed me to help love and grow a healthy child for some very special parents. I consider being a surrogate a once in a lifetime opportunity to give someone the most precious gift there is.

I myself am healthy and active and try to encourage this in my children as well. In my free time I enjoy running, camping, reading and spending time with my family. I also am a 'crazy couponer' and enjoy the thrill of couponing! We are a happy and active family that encourages a positive outlook on life. We try to instill in our children to love everyone as they are and to embrace differences in them.

I look forward to meeting you and becoming a special part of your lives. I will respect any and all wishes that you may have for our adventure together. If you would like to stay informed step by step through out the pregnancy or stay at a distance the choice is yours. I am here for you and your experience.

Sincerely,

Colleen


 Dear Parents or Parents to be,

            Hello my name is Emma Hartnett and if you are reading this I am hoping I will be getting to meet you very soon. I have recently decided to become a surrogate after having my last two babies via donor sperm. I truly enjoy being pregnant and feel this is my calling to help someone else have a child after the blessings I have received from my donor. My husband had fertility issues and we felt donor sperm was the best route for us. We have been blessed with two beautiful babies. I enjoyed the whole process and feel the IVF process will be a great experience form as well. Besides my husband, I have know quite a few people over the past few years that are close to me with fertility issues and I have seen them struggle. I Didn´t realize how common it was and I can now do something about it being that I am done having babies of my own. I have gotten pregnant very easily each time and can¡t wait to get started on this journey with you. I am 38 years old. I have four children ages 20,18,3 and 1. I look forward to getting to know you. Talk to you soon.

Sincerely,

Emma


Dear Intended parent (s),

Let me tell you A little about myself and my beautiful daughter. My name is Anna Elvira, I am 35 years of age, a single mom of a beautiful 7 year old little girl named Kirah. Kirah's father and I are not together but we both love her unconditionally. I live in Fontana, California and lived in the same neighborhood for over 30 years. My dad has lived here a year before I was born... I am a very loving, caring, happy, outgoing and understanding person and definitely a great Mother.

The moment I found out I was pregnant with Kirah, I knew being a mommy just felt so right. It just fit. So many emotions went through my mind and asked myself many questions. The main question to myself was "Am I ready for a baby?" The best answer I knew for that question was "who is!" The most important thing about having a baby is you need to be mentally and emotionally prepared. If you're not prepared mentally or emotionally, than you're not ready for that step in your life. Being a parents is a learning process, babies don't come with a handbook, so no one knows what to expect when your child is born.

Giving birth is such an amazing feeling, as well as the baby being in your tummy. Why I am choosing to become a surrogate is I love being a parent and ther are many many couples that deserve to be parents and can't make that happen! I want to help change your lives and make your parenting dreams come true. I feel I am suitable to be a surrogate for you because I am healthy, I don't smoke, I love being pregnant but not ready for more children. I do want another child in the future but not anytime soon. I am strong willed woman and will not get emotionally attached to your child. I am here to lend you my uterus and take very good care of a beautiful child that will be growing inside me as the baby was my own!! I loved the feeling of a baby growing inside me. It just amazes me that there is a little person growing inside me. They are litlle miracles. I have a very good support system here at home, i have my sister who is behind me 100%, and my friends behind me 100%. They have supported me from the first day I told them I've decided to become a surrogate! They say I am very brave!

When my daughter was born I looked at her and thought to myself how can you love something so much. I knew from that moment that having her was best decisions in my life and wouldn't change ir for anything. She changed my world completely. I want you to have the same feeling as I had when they placed her in my arms. I had tears of joy. Kirah is the most precious thing in my life. I don't know how my life would have been without her in it. Kirah is my life and my world! Kirah is my little angel!

Given the opportunity to be a surrogate for you know I can make you as happy as I am. Every moment with your children are precious! Thank you for taking a moment to read my letter and if you are excited as I am to go through this journey together than it's time to make a baby!!

Sincerely,

Anna


Dear Intended Parents,

My name is Jennifer Merrill and I am mom to Trent (10) Drew (9) and Alex (2). I am grateful each and every day that God chose me to be their Mommy. They are healthy, happy, and wonderful kids. I cannot imagine my life without them.

Some of my close friends have struggled with infertility and have introduced me to learning more about surrogacy. The more and more I thought about it I realized that surrogacy is something that can be so fulfilling to so many people. I have always had a helpful personality and knew in my heart that I should explore more about assisting a couple have a child or more children.

I feel extremely fulfilled having three children of my own and that is why I would like to help someone like you become parents. I am positive and responsible person who you can feel confident in being a surrogate for your newborn baby.

I look forward to meeting you soon.

Kind Regards,

Jennifer


My name is Veronica Castañon, I am 39 years old. I've lived in California my whole life. I met my husband at the age of 14.

We dated for 5 years and got married at the age of 19. I had my first child, Albert, at the age of 20.

On a daily basis I remember holding my baby and thanking the lord for such beautiful miracle. I often wondered what I had done to deserve such joy. Five years later I was pregnant with my second child. I enjoyed every aspect of being pregnant, I even enjoyed the trips to the doctor just to listen to my baby's heart beat. I was still a stay at home mom.

I enjoyed every moment with my two boys. We would spend our mornings at mommy and me classes and the afternoons with dad. Four years after Jesse was born and was pregnant with Ruben, at this point our family was growing.

I was working part time. Monica I have to admit was an unexpected happy surprise two years after Ruben.

I love coming home and seeing the faces of my loved ones happy to see me.

I cant's tell you how much I enjoy the hugs and the kisses. I laugh to myself everytime Y remember funny things my children day. The finger prints and spilled milk. I enjoy every moment of it, because I know one day my children will grow up and start their own journey.

Feel sadness in my heart to imagine that there's people in this world that can't enjoy a child of their own. My family is complete and I would love to help a deserving couple make their life complete


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Dear intended Parent(s),

I am please to write to you and give you a little insight as to who I am and my intentions as to who I am entering this wonderful journey with you.  My name is Nancy Galvez-Cordova (yes, I’m one of those who had to hyphenate her name) and I am 31. I am a mother of 4 beautiful, spunky kids who are my life. My husband Tony , is my rock and my very best friend.

We have been very blessed and it would be so unfair to complain about anything. My husband is self employed and has a extremely flexible schedule that allows us all to be together. We own a company called California Fleet Care which is a mobile fleet washing service that we only cater to big rigs. My husband does all of the work but leaves the paperwork for me. As for me, I am technically a stay at home mom but I do occasionally go to work as an extra for T.V., movies, or commercials. I say technically because I get to choose the days I want to work and it’s usually just 3 to 4 times a month. This past month I haven’t booked myself for anything because I’ve been really busy with my children. That’s the good thing about being an extra, if I don’t want to work that week, its ok.

Both my husband and I were only children until we became teenagers. I always saw how my friends had this awesome relationship with there siblings and at an early age I knew I was going to have a BIG family. My parents were foster parents. When I was 15 they decided to adopt a handsome little boy, my brother Estevan. My husband was 12, when his brother came along. Like I mentioned before I have 4 amazing children. There is Karisma (13), Esmee (8), Gavin (6), and my Sophie (4). I do have two wonderful dogs. There is knickerbocker, my Boston Terrier and Bogart (the puppy) who is a Goldendoodle. Our family is complete and filled with laughter and joy.

Karisma, my 13 year old is basically the inspiration to my journey. She was diagnosed with NF1 at 3 months old. I had never heard of NF before nor did anyone NF. I was told never to worry about it until she reached puberty. Unfortunately it didn’t turn out that way. At the age of 6, she had her first major surgery. Her tumors that I never even knew she had were wrapped around her spinal chord and covering much of her chest and neck area. Se under went debulking at CHOC. Then at age 8 is when I experienced the hard ache of my life. I remember seeing my daughter in so much pain unable to get up. She was literally becoming paralyzed in front of my eyes. I remember my husband and my father placing her in the van so carefully, making sure that nothing snapped. Oce again we took her to CHOC but this time it was different. I was told her spinal chord was literally in danger, her tumors had crushed her vertebrae, and that most  likely, she was going to come out paralyzed. It was such an agonizing, heart breaking month. Five years later with no further surgeries and not paralyzed, Karisma is currently in a study that has shrunk her tumors 14%! She’s our little miracle. I know what it feels like to have something out of control and only having faith and hope by your side.

Although I have not experienced your pain, I do believe that we can both relate to being in a vulnerable place. Whether you have tried multiple times trying to get pregnant or wanting a family and everyone telling you that it’s impossible, we will always have hope and that’s all that matters. As they tell us at church, H.O.P.E. having only positive expectations!

I honestly can’t wait for our family to take this journey with you. I need to teach my children that life is not all about us. It’s about helping in any way you can and that’s there’s a greater purpose in life for every single one of us. The ability and joy to help someone else in a really big way is priceless. I also want to teach my children that families come in all different ways and how important it is to love and care for one another.

I met my husband in college. We were both in a psychology class and I would always sit behind him. 11 years later here we are with 4 wonderful children. Tony and I have been married for 3 years. We didn’t get married right away. It wasn’t until we had our last child Sophie that we finally tied the knot.

My husband is such a loving father. Did I mention he’s been part of the schools PTA for 2 years now and is on the board for the up coming year. It may sound silly to some but that’s who he is. I also love that he helps around the house and with the kids when I don’t even asking him to. He is genuinely a loving and caring husband. We do almost everything together. People we know even say that it’s weird not to see us both together at a function. We both are obsessed with the beach and love to go on hikes. Please don’t think it’s like those crazy in the middle of no where hikes. Not that there is anything wrong with that, it’s just that I’m honestly such a city girl and only do camping in the beach.

My family is 100% complete and you can rest assure that I will not keep you baby. I have told my little ones that I’m going to be a kangaroo mom. I’m just holding this baby in my belly for a little bit and then giving him or her back to it’s really mommy and daddy. As for attaching myself to the baby, I don’t have any plans or rubbing my tummy and talking and talking to him or her the same way with my own children. I’m more than happy to place ear buds to my tummy and have you record your favourite songs or even sweet messages.

All my pregnancies have been extremely easy and I’ve enjoyed every single one. Oh and my husband can’t wait to eat all my crazy cravings. So he’s excited, trust me. My family is extremely supportive and specially since we have 4 children I’m going to rely on them a lot. Driving the kids around, cleaning, making meals, watching the kids, and walking the dogs, you get my drift.

We are looking for intended parents that are easy going. The qualities that we are looking for are the obvious, loving, caring, compassionate, reliable, having a good sense of humor and most of all…optimistic. Since I do have a pretty active life with my children I don’t want to be overwhelmed. I understand that it’s going to be probably your first child but please trust me. I’ve been pregnant four times and I know how to take care of the baby and myself. If you would like for me to eat organic that’s definitely not a problem since we already try to eat organic whenever possible. I do like meat and dairy and that I don’t plan on giving that up. You’re also more than welcome to milestone prenatal visits. With all my birth experiences I definitely like to have the room quite and despise anyone touching me. I don’t say this because I’m in excruciating pain. It’s just me in the zone and focusing on the experience.

I can’t wait for you to feel your baby kick for the first in my belly or seeing your child for the first time. It’s going to be a wonderful journey! We can’t wait to meet you. Have a blessed day! 

 

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